In my case I'm watching what the Tories are up to with horror but in the case of a visit to the ladies, if I'm not saying how do they suppose they'll know?

What do you do in there after all? Use facilities, wash hands, maybe fix face and hair, maybe exchange a polite word and leave..........

A friend on here is a cis butch lesbian and as she's said more than once, if we went to the ladies together, it'd be her they'd challenge!